I think it sucks that it seems girls outnumber guys. Its much easier for a girl to get a boyfriend then a guy to get a girlfriend , This sucks. About the "girls have guys flocking to them", I stand to prove that is not true. I am going through this point in my life where I am getting upset because I don't have a boyfriend or any real friends for that matter...This isnt a aspergers issue I think all guys feel this way, But it is more difficult for us aspys. But the people on the site were probably 1/10 to 3/10 at best in looks.it's true girls have it way easier. I am all alone, and I have pretty low standards of what I want in a guy: No drugs, alcohol, mental illness (you know, the serious ones), not brown eyes...Online dating sites suck, Girls are way to judgemental. Okay, so I have HIGH standards, though, if somebody showed any interest I bet my standards would break pretty quickly... This isnt a aspergers issue I think all guys feel this way, But it is more difficult for us aspys. that flock of guys understand this, thats why they flock. Having a girlfriend filled that gap that we tend to have which is loneliness. Men with AS just aren't built to succeed in the same way.They look at your profile or your pic and if theres something they dont like they wont talk to you. someone said something funny to me the other day they said... Since we dont really know many people and thats how you meet girls alot of the time through other people.thats cause guys are/can be more open(social rules, guys can be players, girls cant) about wanting to have to sex. I wouldnt say most guys deal with this, only the shy/quiet ones. I would like a nice girlfriend but I dont come across many , I Dont get out that much. The hook catches the fish, but you have to do the work afterwards. Your personality, demeanor etc put that fish on the boat. If you lose confidence, someone can become unattracted to you.thats why you dont rush it. If you rush it you may go with answer B when answer C is the better the end, its not hard to meet nice girls. Look for quieter settings when trying to meet someone ,avoid the bar scene . And definitely great for those of us too lazy to actually reach over and open up our laptops. Well, today I’m going to give you the lowdown on their dating app. Convenient, fast, perfect for all of us who have too many things to do (nurturing our careers, volunteering, networking, trying not to go crazy).This theory is complemented by Hanna Rosin’s article, “The End of Men”, which notes how men have disproportionately suffered the brunt of the 2008 economic collapse and have fallen by the wayside as women have continued to succeed.This has effectively divided the male population into two camps: those who have weathered the economic storm and are thriving in their jobs as software programmers, consultants or whatever, and those who have moved back in with their parents and lackadaisically look for jobs while they continue to cash in their monthly unemployment benefits.
Unarguable fact: women get sex way easier than men.
I Just think it sucks that guys have it harder then girls. About the "girls have guys flocking to them", I stand to prove that is not true. I am going through this point in my life where I am getting upset because I don't have a boyfriend or any real friends for that matter... So now my standards are high because I compare everyone to her which I know is bad but I cant help it , Because ive seen I could get a very hot girlfriend, so I dont want to lower my standard.
Expecially good looking girls they have life so much easier. Not to mention even if I do find a nice girl keeping the relationship stable and trying to keep her happy and myself happy is difficult...... I am all alone, and I have pretty low standards of what I want in a guy: No drugs, alcohol, mental illness (you know, the serious ones), not brown eyes... true to an extent I am cursed because I am attractive but ... also the anxiety I get around a girl I like is unbearable I think it sucks that it seems girls outnumber guys. Its much easier for a girl to get a boyfriend then a guy to get a girlfriend , This sucks. I Guess that comes with a price of probarly being single all my life . I'm not really wanting to lower my standard why should I? If you are trying to meet girls in a similar way that an NT man would then you will be at a significant disadvantage.
Unless you are an extrovert, this time takes a toll too (going out all the time) So there is something interesting about the two adages : "if something works, don't fix it" and "prostitution is the oldest profession in the world" they both compliment each other, why?
Getting laid means going out, chatting, chasing, escalating, getting dates, getting rejected etc.